Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts

Monday, December 20, 2010

Driving in the Right-Hand Lane

Several weeks ago I was in a meeting where we were discussing the January worship series for our church, of which one of the weeks will be focused on slowing down in a hurry up world. We talked about the pace in which we live our lives, always seeming to be in a hurry, especially around the holidays. The focus of our culture seems to be on quantity rather than quality...how much can we do? How many friends do we have on facebook? How many activities are we involved in? How many projects can we juggle at work? People always tell me that life goes by so fast, especially in regards to parenting children, and we often express remorse about that fact. I wonder if there are things we can do in order to change the pace in which we live our lives?

At this meeting, we brainstormed some of the ways we might allow the congregation to engage and experience that concept as well as some strategies people could take home. One idea lifted up was to drive in the right hand lane. A simple, yet powerful concept. One at which I initially scoffed at as I am a left hand lane driver through & through (I unfortunately have several points on my driving record as proof). However, the more I thought about it, the more I thought I’d try it out for the month of December. At first it was difficult, but then my paradigm changed and I began to value the feeling of not being rushed. I was amazed at how much stress I was carrying around just by driving in a hurry. It was quite freeing to tell you the truth. Now, I do occasionally still use the left hand lane, but not very frequently.

The amazing thing is that I have noticed that my right-hand lane mentality has crossed over into other areas of my life...slowing down to take advantage of the moment. I don’t try to hurry through things as much. Of course I still have a ways to go as I work and live in a fast-paced culture, but I can still stay with the flow of traffic while in the right hand lane. Hopefully you might take an opportunity to drive in the right hand lane some this Christmas, if only to just see what it’s like...

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Three Simple Words

There are three simple words in the English language that we throw around without care, almost egregiously. It seems as though we feel obligated to say them, to the point they start to become a meaningless cliché. Yet these words are potent, as at their very core they bring the fullness of the human capacity for emotion to the surface. People have sacrificed a great deal for these words throughout history; many have even given their lives for them. The three words to which I am referring are quite simply, Peace On Earth.

Particularly during the holiday season, we are inundated with this notion of peace. But what is it we are really talking about here? Is it merely the cessation of war? I am certain that is part of it, but I have a feeling true peace encompasses so much more and I am beginning to come to the realization that peace, on earth, is much more difficult to achieve than we ever thought possible, yet more readily attainable than any of us ever dreamed.

I have been practicing yoga for almost 8 years now, but have just recently been introduced to the concept of the Satsang. There is more to it than I can discuss now, but the basic concept (and meaning of the word) is Divine Association: intentionally segregating what is divine from what is not and allowing your mind to focus solely on the divine. The belief is that when we associate our mind and body with something, we develop an attachment to it, whatever that may be – good or bad. We see something that appeals to us and so we think it is good. It entices us, it beckons us, and soon it begins to dominate our thoughts. We begin to desire it, to love it and we become attached to it and are then dependent upon it. This process is the same for the things of the world that can bring pain and suffering, such as addictions, as well as the things that bring health and life such as love and joy. The crux is in choosing what to be in association with and recognizing that the longer we submit to a specific association, the stronger it becomes.

When we look at a thin sheet of ice on top of the water, we see it can be easily broken, but over time, that thin sheet of ice thickens and can eventually become a glacier, which is strong enough to carve mountains. If we continue to feed the ice by slowly dripping cold water on it, we will see its size and strength grow. However, if we slowly drip warm water on it, we will see it begin to melt. So it is with the mind…if we constantly associate and dwell on the things of the world, then there will be no room for God, yet if we steadily begin to associate and attach to the things of the Divine, it will slowly take the place of any negative attachments.

Brother Lawrence, a 17th century monk known for the closeness of his relationship with God, depicts a similar concept to the Satsang in his classic text, The Practice of the Presence of God. To summarize, the majority of the text focuses on how he daily associated himself with the things of God. He would simply think about God constantly and when he recognized that he had become distracted, he simply refocused his attention back to God. And the more he practiced this, the easier it became. His heart and mind were bonded to God in such a powerful way, that meditating and being in communion with God became second nature for Brother Lawrence.

The way I see that this relates to peace on earth is found in the teachings of Confucius; “To put the world in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must cultivate our personal life; and to cultivate our personal life, we must first set our hearts right.” There is another saying that reiterates this concept, which is attributed to the Dalai Lama; “We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.”

Regardless of your religious beliefs, I have a feeling that there is something here worth investigating...and that is if we truly desire a world of peace, then the only possible way for it to become a reality is for us to take responsibility for the unrest we each bring into the world and begin to set our hearts right. No longer can we tacitly place the blame on others, be it our neighbor, our employer, our politicians, our religious leaders, or even our fanatical left and right wing extremists. I have to accept responsibility for my contributions to preventing peace in my sphere of influence. And slowly, each day, I attempt to make decisions that bring me closer to the divine in hopes of finding an inner peace that may change the world.

So, the next time you hear those three simple words, take a moment of reflection, and hopefully we can all allow the divine that we have become attached to inside our hearts, see and recognize that same divine in others. It may be at that very moment that we truly know and experience peace here on earth.

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Consumption

This past year I have really been thinking a lot about our current level of consumption as a society and as a species. I began by reading Affluenza, a somewhat humorous, yet accurate, observation of the impacts of our affluent lifestyles on culture and the environment. I highly recommend you check it out from your local library.

I look at our world, well - i should say specifically our country - and I see how much marketing and advertising we are exposed to. We are bombarded with people telling us what to do & what to value. And we believe them. At least I do. When the iPhone ads came out - I was hooked. And guess what, when the phone I was currently using broke last October, guess what I did. That's right...I bought an iPhone. Did I really need it - no. Did I allow slick marketing to influence how I determined what was valuable and important to me?

Yep.

The environment is another interesting topic that has a lot to do with consumptions levels. (Here's an interesting 20 min video about consumption. It is a bit biased, but still interesting.) Now really - no matter where you are politically, we must admit that our current levels of consumption are not healthy for the environment. I am not convinced that the human race is directly causing climate change, but when I look at the effects of what we are doing, I get sick to my stomach. But do I still continue to consume at an unprecedented rate? Do I let convenience and low prices influence how I spend my money?

Yep.

I watched some of the presidential debates last night that I had recorded. One of the topics was health care. One of the candidates responded that we do not have a health care crisis, we have a health crisis. Americans consume way more food than we should, and yet we do not exercise or adopt healthy lifestyles. This pattern has been a primary contributor to a tremendous increase in diabetes, heart disease, and a significant number of other ailments. So what do we do? Well - do I turn to the medical professionals for treatment instead of prevention? Am I shocked by how much the treatment costs? Do I look to our government to find a solution for more affordable health care instead of considering my health as my responsibility?

Yep.


Am I proud that this is who I am?
Do I continue to believe that this what it means to be a Christian in today's world?
Will I just sit back and consider it someone else's responsibility?

Not any more.

I have a voice, and so do you.
I am more than a demographic, and so are you.
I am going to be the change that I desire in the world, and hopefully you will too.

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Seeing gray in a world of black & white

Our senior pastor, Adam Hamilton, is starting a new sermon series on January 6th titled Seeing Gray...which will look at a variety of issues, particularly in regards to the upcoming election. Here's a video promo...looks to be quite intriguing and informative. And I just want to say that it is great being part of a community that is not afraid to talk about these issues. We may not all come down on the same side of each issue, and that's okay....I'm just glad we're talking about them!

Sunday, December 16, 2007

What Not to Wear - Comfortable is Out!

You may have seen the TLC show What Not To Wear. If you have, you are probably aware that the majority of people on the show are wardrobe-challenged. You come to find out that many of the people just do not give their wardrobe that much attention. You also find out that most folks on the show take the 'function over fashion' adage to the extreme by saying that they prefer their clothing to be comfortable.

What the hosts of the show argue is that the way you dress is a reflection of yourself, and how you dress communicates a great deal about you and how you feel about yourself. Many times when people say they want their clothing to be comfortable, what they are really saying is that their current style of dress (being sweats or baggy clothes, or 1980's style) has more to do with their psychological comfort zone and not so much how the actual clothes feel.

The hosts then help each person venture outside of their comfort zone by trying on new clothes and giving them guidelines on how to shop for their particular body-type. Without fail, each person on the show comes away saying that not only do they feel great about how they look, but that their self-confidence has grown tremendously. A transformation has occurred.

I sometimes wonder...do we as the church sometimes find ourselves in the exact same place as some of the people on the show? Do we have a way of doing things that may be outdated, or just doesn't work? A way of functioning that alienates others, or is downright unhealthy?

Do we as the church have a comfort zone that is keeping us from realizing our full potential?

Are we intentional about doing the things Jesus told us to do, such as spending time befriending those outside the faith, or in different cultural or socio-economic standings? Do we allow the fear of change to dictate how our corporate gatherings are shaped, or to allow a program to continue which shouldn't, or a whole host of other things?

Is our desire to be comfortable?

I know for myself, deep down, that I desire comfort. I usually resist change that I do not help initiate. I think it is human nature to desire consistency, pattern, and repetition. But I also wonder if our affluence has contributed to our desire for comfort. We've grown accustomed to being able to satisfy our needs very easily and without much sacrifice, so why should we have to sacrifice in our churches. Why should we have to change?

If we cater our churches only to those who are already a part of them, then we are probably not developing relationships with those outside the church. If we are not developing relationships with those outside of the church, then we become no more than a narcissistic organization trying in vain to relive its glory days.

So I find myself continuously asking myself and those I am in ministry with, are we currently trying to reach others in this particular effort...or are we just trying to keep those of us already here happy and...comfortable?


Tuesday, December 11, 2007

The wonders of Facebook

So, i've resisted the myspace craze rather well...but I finally gave in and created a facebook profile and I must honestly say that I am completely amazed at how fast and easy it is to create huge networks of people.

This is brilliant! In a matter of days I have found friends that I have not heard from in many years. One such friend is Trace Bundy...a truly amazing guitarist from Boulder, CO.

Check out this video of him playing...and notice his technique and use of capos. You can get his music from his website tracebundy.com, or at itunes.

Friday, November 16, 2007

Church growth in Russia

The methodist church has an agency called the General Board of Global Ministries, which part of their purpose is to assist with the expansion of the methodist church across the globe. Russia happens to be one of the places which is experiencing a great deal of growth and expansion which has been assisted by the GBGM's Russia Initiative Conferences held annually throughout the US which attempts to partner local churches in the US with churches in Eurasia in order to grow & learn from each other.

We've had the opportunity to host this years Russia Initiative, which is number 13, and has been an incredible experience. A delegation of 110 pastors and lay leaders from Eurasia along with 227 pastors and laity from the US have gathered to be in dialogue and communication on how to best continue supporting the church in Russia and Ukraine and I must say it has been great meeting folks from halfway across the world that share in the same mission and vision.

I'll try to post some pics soon.

Monday, October 22, 2007

a ghost, a witch, and a pirate ship

that is what we made tonight. You know, there's nothing like cutting open a pumpkin, reaching in and pulling out all the slimy grossness one finds inside pumpkins. I actually find it interesting that pumpkins are hollow. Why is that? I suppose if I really wanted to know, I could find out, but i'm feeling quite lazy at the moment.

Anyway - I've always carved pumpkins with kitchen knives and have found it to be a rather good way to end up with several band-aids on my hands, thus have had a reluctance to carving pumpkins...especially around small children. For the past few years, we've drawn on them with markers, but by doing that you really miss out on the backlighting effect when you place the candle inside...which I must admit is really pretty cool.

So we bought a carving kit which contained 2 small saw-like utensils, a small drill (plastic & non-motorized), and for lack of a better term - a little pokey-wheel, which helped you transfer your design from paper to the pumpkin (I think I've seen one of these used for sewing once before).

This was amazing. No more trying to saw through the pumpkin thinking that at any moment the knife may slip and cut off a finger (i wonder if others have similar thoughts). The saws give you great control and allow for a great amount of detail. So, here's our creations from tonight.











Happy Halloween!

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Dream On

Here's a great remake of Aerosmith's Dream On by Kelly Sweet.

Saturday, August 4, 2007

POI

Last night I was introduced to the art-form called poi. a style of juggling involving the swinging of balls on chains or ropes. The interesting thing is, the balls are on fire. She also used a set of balls that glow in the dark. The art form was absolutely beautiful, and my daughter loved it too. If you ever get a chance to see it, i highly encourage it.

here's some pics: